Marvin Lester Reid, December 16, 1945, in Japan. |
He was a man of small town Midwestern civic virtue, in the best possible sense. He took obvious pride in his two story white wood frame house, with L-shaped front porch, set up on a steep embankment like all the houses on East Allen Street. He built a brick walkway the length of the long narrow backyard, lined with a long garden of roses, currants, and every vegetable you could grow in Southeastern Ohio. In a shady corner, a porch swing hung from an arbor he built under a crabapple tree. At the terminus of the walkway, paved with bricks salvaged when Lancaster paved its streets with asphalt, a white frame garage that looked more like a stable housed his immaculately waxed Ford LTD, traded in every four years at the local Ford dealer for an updated version of the same.
Jessie and Tim get a good seat on the stoop for the parade, January 4, 1971, Lancaster, Ohio, where my Mon's parents, Lester and Martha Reid lived. |
He knew the proper seasons and places to gather morels, when the hazelnuts would be prime for gathering on Mt. Pleasant, where the best blackberry brambles were. Though his heart was too weak to scale Mt. Pleasant, he encouraged us to climb to the top, while he rested on a boulder. He wanted us to see that view: Lancaster's rows of neat frame houses, the beautiful fairgrounds, the rich fields that stretched all the way to the Hocking Hills.
Back at the house on Allen Street, I knew that at some point the first floor parlor had been converted to the master bedroom, the dining room was made into the living room, and the back porch enclosed as a bath. I knew Grandpa Reid had difficulty with stairs, that his heart had been weakened by rheumatoid fever picked up while serving in the Pacific. But I never thought of him as disabled: he worked all his life, tended his garden, took care of his home. I never heard him complain or express regret.
Holidays and special weekends were spent down in Lancaster. My Grandmother's table strained under the weight of robust turkey breasts and dozens of pies, of glistening glazed hams and cheesecake with homemade black cherry topping. Adults gathered around the kitchen table for Euchre and Camels, cousins sprawled on the living room floor with dogs and games of our own invention. When it was time to leave my grandmother and grandfather kept bringing more and more parcels of food to the car for us to take home. Thy wanted to make sure that way up in Akron we would still have good butter (and homemade rolls and drumsticks and pies and casserole.) My grandfather always told us to be careful (I think he mistrusted my Dad's Japanese cars) and lingered on the front porch until our car disappeared down Allen Street.
I have a brass antique car piggy bank, my Grandfather gave one each to Tim and I, from The Farmers & Citizens Bank of Lancaster. I am sure it is conglomerated into Chase or PNC or somesuch by now, but it always reminds me of him, his pride in his community, how he thought Ohio was the most beautiful place. I think we used to think he was a little provincial, old fashioned. But he had seen other continents, and oceans, and to him, the Grand Canyon could never compare to Old Man's Cave, Buckeye Lake was at least the equal of Captiva Island, Mt. Pleasant a more than splendid enough view.
It was an icy January when he died, salting those steep front steps on Allen Street. He didn't want the mailman to have a difficult time. He slipped and fell to the base. He died of head injuries. Of course, you could say that a septuagenarian WWII veteran with a weak heart had no business being out in an ice storm on those steep slippery steps. But that was not my grandfather: you salted your steps. You served your country. You looked out for your community. That is who he was, and what he did.
Every Veteran's Day and Memorial Day, I think of Lester Marvin Reid. I think of his soft spoken civic pride, his dutifulness, his love of country, of nature and things that grow, the way he provided for his family. I see those virtues in his daughter, and only hope that I can become a worthy grandson.
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